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Most. Narc s have been abused in their past. They are evil runnnnnnn be safe. get. Support. Never look back they. Play the victim. Right from the get go when allow you them into your life they blame others. No they did to others before they met you what they say someone did to them. So. Listen. Hard. When you met someone. They did to the people in their past. Stop being a care. Give to them. Be with someone who has their minds together you can t fix them. Go live. your best life they. Do not know the word no or stop. Don t take crap. Ever

Really! What is there to talk about? The Narc said everything loud and clear what they had to say over an extended period of time with those abusive actions and statements.

Perfectly put.

I cannot tell you how much you are helping me. You are such a blessing to all the people who are being abused in this toxicity. I have listened to a lot of professionals and you say you aren’t a professional but you explain things in such a way that shines light in my darkness. I have been in a fog of second guessing, thinking I don’t forgive enough, wondering if I am mean to say finally after almost 30 years that I can’t do this anymore. My soul is broken. Your video on how Narcissists see you was such a revelation to me. It cleared some of my fog and helped to see. Bless you, God Bless you is all I can say. Please keep doing these videos, you have a gift of explaining things and I don’t even know if that addresses it enough. You are just a blessing ❤

Your kitty is so handsome.❤

If you give up your identity, autonomy and soul to them you are good enough.

You do everything, they do nothing and you are the problem always. Such disgusting people. They demand loyalty but deceive you in every way. Entitled sociopaths.

If they are talking, they are lying. They twist and distort reality.

If they are caught in a lie its "a joke or you misinterpreted it."

They are so miserable and try to keep you in their misery.

They also say later "we have nothing in common" yes, because you lied about who you were. He, at the end, mocked everything about me.

You have to think with logic not emotions. It’s exactly what I’m in the process of now.

Don't go back. The abuse is worse.

"They make you grateful for them just being kind" OMG, its so true. They lower our standards so low that when they do things like laundry they think they should be rewarded.

Girl I think you need to Get clinically checked out

You are spot on! 👌 this has helped so much.

My ex tries to buy his way back into my life all the time. I'm at the point where I just say thanks and walk away.

This is so true. I lived it. No more though. Future faking is exactly that, nothing good is gonna happen. Best to cut your losses and start again. Never go back. Mathew 12:45.

I am being hoovered right now! I blocked him 8 months ago. And he's calling, trying to FaceTime me and leaving voice mail. But, he's blocked!

It's a good thing I'm better than all men. Everyone really.

I just sucked in about 1-2 months ago. He following my Facebook page. Just seen his picture I could get out of it till today. Finally.

You are wonderful and such a beautiful person, I appreciate all you have shared. I've been through a lot , it's amazing how it all comes down me and recognize my growing up background. It takes so long to get here, to admit personally how we all live in a certain amount of denial, or self coping, or self protection...this is a huge topic and needs to be respected, it has become a buzz word now days.... thanks for all your doing

SPOT ON TRUE Hoping that positivity TRUMPS over negativity but NO!! not for MY' EX narcissist.God' Help Them

Well they do that because they have your number and they know the exact manipulating things to do to keep the game going. You see the victims of abusers are nothing but a role played in their script for their benefit.

SPOT ON so True!! GOD' Help Them 💨 💖

In my experience I have learned that they do not know that they are lying. They do it unintentionally. They genuinely believe their own lies and own fantasies . Trying to convince them that they are wrong , is going to cause nothing but conflict and a DARVO response. Evidence and proof is useless. My solution is to coddle them like a child and treat them as you would an old senile person ! Stop treating them as a sane rational adult. They are immature and you need to realize that you are the adult and that they can never be your partner in anything. You have to manage them the best you can.

I think the key here is to accept that 0 is the key 0% chance if they are a true pathological narcissist I just can't imagine their brain with all of its cognitive deficiencies and realistic interpretations will ever allow them to change

Well I guess if you enjoy being stuck in quicksand You might want to give it a shot

More and more of her female friends are blocked and treated like dirt like i suffered! They are starting to wise up to my ex GFs behaviours and reconsidering going back to her as the blame holder. One of her friends went back to her boyfriend after a breakup and my ex withdrew her friendship from her and blocked her even though that was my ex’s best female friend. Just way too punitive and coercive a way to treat people you’re close to and i said to her discarded friend “look you’ve done nothing wrong. It is your decision to go back to your boyfriend you are not under her control”. Too spiteful to withdraw support from someone like that when they’re at their lowest.

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I'm pleased that you're preaching to the converted (meant in a positive way) in my case and I'm feeling extremely relieved about breaking trauma bonds with the last ex, among other people, because the process was damn painful! It's definitely worth it in the end though and I've probably mentioned that I questioned the ex out loud about assisting with his housing issue when he'd treated me so badly in the past, or words to that effect! I already knew the reasons why and I'm slowly learning to not be so kind to people, no matter what they've endured, especially when they don't even deserve the time of day from me. 💜

Thank you so much for the clarity

Thank you so very much for taking the time and effort and reflection to make this video. It is so helpful and I will come back to it again whenever needed. 💖

Zero is accurate

The person I dated for two years- whom I was completely devoted to, absolutely committed to, loved more than anyone, and was working desperately towards a future with, including being a step-mom to his children- told me the day he discarded me that he “has no faith” in me. He had said that a few times before and I asked him to please explain exactly what he meant by this and I never got an answer. What does it mean when they “have no faith” in us? What does that even mean? I can’t imagine a crueler thing to say, tears come to my eyes even writing this.

F-^k narcs. They should be thrown in jail for 2 years, minimum.

Spot on! 🙌 💙💙💙

No merecen NADA de nosotros pero el sólo hecho de haber invertido tanto en esta gentuza hace que queramos seguir adelante 🤔

❤️ thank you, I love all your videos. Always learn so much very informative xx